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At One-Eighty Counseling

 

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

 

We Specialize In:

Sex Therapy
Faith Based Therapy
CBT | DBT | Play Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapy
Substance Abuse Counseling
Trauma therapy (EMDR | TFCBT)

What is CBT and How Does it Work?

CBT stands for cognitive-behavioral therapy. It is based on the premise that thoughts, feelings and behaviors are interconnected. Research on brain neuroplasticity has shown that your brain is changeable throughout lifetime. By changing your thoughts and behaviors, you create new connections, altering the structure of your brain. This is great news, but making these changes takes concerted effort. If you tend to have negative or pessimistic thoughts, it’s difficult to shift into positive (or even neutral) thinking. When you do, though, you will notice a positive impact on your mood and behaviors.

I find it helpful to picture paths in a forest to represent neuropathways in the brain. When you’re in the forest, you’re likely to go down the path you’ve gone down the most. It’s wide and clear and you know what to expect. One day you might realize that this well-worn path brings you to a place you don’t like to be. So, you decide to go down a new path. The only problem is there are trees and roots, rocks, bushes and weeds in your way. You’ll have to machete your way through to create a new path. It’s the same with creating a new path in the brain. This is a lot of work, but it’s worth it!

CBT is beneficial for persons with mood disorders, like depression or anxiety, and for anyone who wants to improve their general mood and attitude. Everyone has experienced a cognitive distortion at one time or another; a cognitive distortion is an unhelpful way of thinking that negatively impacts your mood. You can find a list of common cognitive distortions here: https://positivepsychologyprogram.com/cognitive-distortions/.

One type of distorted thinking is labeling: an example of this is when you label yourself “stupid” because you failed a test. When you apply cognitive challenging (a CBT skill), you might realize you failed the test because you missed a lot of classes or you didn’t study. When you place overly negative labels on yourself, you will tend to choose behaviors that live up to the expectation of that label: “I’m stupid, so why bother trying? I’m not going to waste my time studying.” Your behavior (choosing not to study) will then reinforce your negative belief (“I’m stupid”). The more you label yourself, the stronger that belief becomes and the more you will choose behaviors that reinforce it, thus feeding into a vicious cycle. The good news is you can create positive cycles with cognitive challenging and other CBT skills that your therapist can teach you and help you apply.

Developed by Julie DeFalco, MSW, LCSW

 

 

Garner

Phone 

(919) 772-1990

Fax: (919) 772-1978

Address

69 Shipwash Drive
Garner, NC 27529
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Holly Springs

Phone

(919) 226-5500 

Fax: (919) 226-5510

Address

301 West Center St, Suite 367
Holly Springs, NC 27540
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Cary

Phone

(919) 462-8308 Fax: (919) 462-0433

Address

113 Edinburgh South Drive, Suite 130
Cary, NC 27511
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