Always On: What High Functioning Anxiety Really Looks Like
By Jason Kron, MBA, MIM, LCMHCA, LCASAFor some professionals, it is not a person.
It is the next problem.
The next mistake.
The next conversation.
The next thing they should have seen coming.
Some people do not look anxious.
They look prepared.
They think ahead.
They anticipate problems.
They rehearse conversations before they happen.
They make backup plans for the backup plans.
They stay useful.
In many professional settings, that gets rewarded.
The most anxious person in the room may also be the most prepared.
They are often the one who sees around corners, catches problems early, remembers what others miss, and keeps things from falling apart.
From the outside, that can look like discipline.
On the inside, it can feel like surveillance.
Always scanning.
Always calculating.
Always waiting for the next problem.
That is what makes high functioning anxiety hard to recognize. It often hides behind preparation.
Planning is useful.
Living like you are always on call is not.
A quiet evening becomes planning time.
A day off becomes catch up time.
A small mistake becomes something to replay for hours.
A normal uncertainty becomes something that has to be solved immediately.
Over time, the mind can become a workplace you never clock out of.
Some people do not overthink because they are dramatic.
They overthink because control started feeling like safety.
A lot of professionals are not struggling because they lack discipline.
They are struggling because their nervous system has learned to treat constant vigilance as the price of staying okay.
Jason Kron
is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate and Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist Associate who works with adults navigating chronic pain, anxiety, depression, trauma, and substance use. Read Full Bio
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